That’s why the best way you can become an amazing gift giver is by simply paying attention. This can mean secretly grabbing an item your friend was eyeing while you’re both out shopping (I’ve done this and there’s no greater thrill).

Or it can mean putting together a capsule of items that reflect a side of them they didn’t know someone else saw.

This is something my dear husband has taught me over the years of us being together. He’s someone who always takes note when people mention something they like or something they’ve been pining after. He also has a talent for picking items he knows people would think are “too silly” or “too much” to get themselves. Not only is he right on the ball every time but it makes people feel validated in a way they didn’t expect.

While I’m still trying to reach his level of gift-giving, he gave me the best lessons that inspired this year’s gift guide.

Because what made me most excited about curating a gift guide this year (amidst all the overconsumption, capitalism fatigue, etc. etc), was simply thinking about my beautiful friends and the items that would speak to them.

I hope you can see some of your own loved ones in these guides (you likely know someone who is a beautiful combination of multiple!) and it can help get you inspired.

Also, the items below are a mix of stuff I own as well as hand-picked pieces on my radar. I’ll do another end-of-the-year list compiling my most used and loved items but if you’re curious, the items below that have an astirisk are ones that I own, use and humbly vouch for!

So let’s get into it…

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01 | For the ambiance architect

I’m talking about the hostesses, the interior decorators, the gatherers. This is the person who, without them, the plans would never leave the group chat.

But also, they’re the ones who always have the most atmospheric vibe in their home. Whether it’s for a full-on dinner party or a quick hang, their space always smells, looks and feels amazing for any occassion.

1. Kodhi Mini Table Lamp, $39. A lamp is the best appliance to gift, especially if it’s a small, decorative one like this that doubles as an interesting color combo for the home. Something for their kitchen, end table or atop their bar cart to help create that perfect ambient lighting.

2. Archivist Gallery Matchbox, $16. I mean, they wouldn’t be caught dead using a regular shmegular lighter, right?

3. Vintage Ceramic Candle Holders, $19. Finding candle holders is most satisfying when they find you at a vintage shop or thrift store. But I love these because of their simple color and bubble design.

4. *A Henry Mancini Vinyl or CD, $24. Because there’s nothing more cool than putting a record on before the guests arrive. Highly reccomend anything instrumental, classical or from old movie soundtracks. Personally, my favorites are the many Henry Mancini records I inherited from my dad.

5. Personalized Bottle Apron, $38. A darling apron for the wine, sparkling grape juice or prosecco you’ll surely be bringing to this friend’s next holiday gathering.

6. Stoneware Coasters, $6.95 ea. As a coaster connoisseur myself, stone and ceramic coasters are the best. Sturdy, easy to clean and give a decorative weight to any room. I love the aura-like color design of these and that you can buy them individually, instead of a whole set.

7. Porta Butterfingers Butter Dish, $125. A bigger ticket item that will make the butter the star of the show (table).

8. Rifle and Co. Fleece Blanket, $62. There’s nothing a good host or environment curator loves more than being able to offer a blanket to someone. This one has the most beautiful design and has a classic fleece material that keeps any guest warm and chic.

9. Swan Lemon Squeezer, $48. All hosts love a practical tool that makes a simple task more romantic and charming.

10. Coco Cup Set, $197. Fancy drinkware with any kind of tinted glass is always a beautiful embelishment to anyone’s bar cart, like this green set of glasses that look like they’ve been pulled from an artist’s sketchbook.

11. *Vintage Bubble Glass, $26.40. A longtime favorite in my bar cart. These are my most-used type of vintage glasses to thrift or find on Etsy. They feed the senses all-around.

12. *Soy Wax Taper Candles, $12.71. The easiest gift of them all, especially if the person you have in mind goes through their candles fast. Pair it with those matches and candle holders above and you’re set.

02 | For the nature notetaker

Whether it’s a cool bird you’ve never noticed before, a park that has a secret meadow or a an encouraging gardening tip, this is the friend that helps you notice earthly miracles around you.

Maybe they’re gardeners, bird watchers, plant lovers or just someone who’s always outside. Either way, they’re the ones always grounding you in some way.

1. Vintage Animal, Wildlife or Nature T-Shirt, $15. Do they have a fixation animal, bird or plant? Type that along with “soft cotton vintage T-shirt” on any secondhand site and a treasure cove will appear.

2. Personalized Engraved Carabener, $17.22. A practical gift that they probably forgot to buy themselves (or they’ve been using the same one they found in a junk drawer). Why not give them a fresh one with a sentimental touch?

3. Garden Centre Baseball Cap, $33.33. Your outdoorsey friend will always need a good cap. The best ones have some kind of niche reference, animal illustration or cool font.

4. Hand Painted Bird Charm Necklace, $55. There’s a good chance this person usually has an easy uniform they can reach for when going for their outdoor adventures. An everyday necklace — especially like this hand painted one with one of their favorite birds — could be their new go-to.

5. Mantis Sampler Fine Art Poster, $25. A nature-themed art print to help bring the beauty of the outside into their home.

6. Ban.Do Gardening Gloves, $19.95. Something to keep their hands warm and safe when weeding their garden, planting their herbs or planting trees.

7. Compact Scope, $28. Whether they’re an ameteur watcher or someone just starting out, this cutie little scope is perfect for them to have on their keychain at-the-ready for whenever they see an unxepected bird.

8. Terra Oracle Animal Tarot Deck & Guidebook, $52.50. A beautiful way for someone to spirtually connect with the wildlife around them, while also learning something new. Plus, the illustrations are stunning and feel like they’re straight out of a folktale with talking animals.

9. Feather Resin Bangle, $36. I mean, because, why not? These bangles use the beauty of feathers to create lovely neutral accessory that goes with anything.

10. Picnic Blanket, $38.95. So they can always feel close to the earth comfortably.

11. Leather National Parks Guide Booklet, $37.50. Perfect for tracking their progress of exploring all the national parks.

12. Recycled Cashmere Handwarmers, $44. Something about these hand warmers feel so classic, yet practical. Keeps your hands warm while still letting you grip a pair of binoculars or pick berries comfortably.

13. The Serviceberry by Robin Wall Kimmerer, $20. Any book by Robin Wall Kimmerer will be a winner, but I’ve recently heard great things about “The Serviceberry”.

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03 | For the sleeping beauty

This is for the person who takes sleep seriously. The homebodies, silk pillowcase-havers and the ones with the best bedtime playlist. This is the friend that has likely taken you to a sound bath and who has the best spa reccomendations (or, they know how to make their bathroom feel like one).

1. *Loftie Alarm Clock, $99. There’s a lot of alarm clocks you can get out there, but this is the one I’ve been using the last three years or so and I highly recommend it. No connection to your phone — only soothing sounds to wake you up, pre-loaded bedtime meditations and even calming soundscapes.

2. *DedCool Room + Linen Spray, $40. Scent is such a powerful tool for winding down. I’ve used this DedCool linen spray so often that I think it’s what my literal dreams smell like.

3. *Mulberry Silk Sleeping Mask, $35. I’ve recommended this before, but this is still one of the best gifts I’ve ever gotten from my husband (he’s even re-purchased one for me after I left mine at a hotel). It puts me right to sleep and makes me feel like a literal princess.

4. Once Upon a Dream Journal, $38. These have the most darling, comforting covers. The perfect notebook to have by your bedside, ready to capture any dreams you want to catch as you wake up.

5. *Stainless Steel Gua Sha and Roller Set, $21. I recently switched from a jade to a stainless steel gua sha / roller and have never looked back. Perfect for a bedtime facial massage and removing the tension of the day from your face.

6. Filter Optix Orange Tinted Glasses, $250. You can definitely find these for cheaper (especially if someone just wants to try them out), but this is the brand I’ve heard raved about the most and apparently even helps with some people’s headaches.

7. L.L. Bean Slippers, $69.95. Like cozy socks, these are something everyone forgets to get themselves! I love the patterns for these and that they actually support your foot like a shoe (I’m a slip-on slipper hater, sorry).

8. *Indu Body Lotion, $25. Listen, there’s a lot of aromatherapy body lotions being sold to us. But this will always be my holy grail. I’ve used it ever since my mom and I were going to yoga in the 2010s because our instructor would always use it for face massages. Perfect for a bedtime massage or late-night yoga sesh.

9. Gua Sha Hair and Scalp Brush, $62.50. Again, there’s cheaper alternatives. But wooden brushes and head massages are just perfect for head massages or oil treatments before bed.

10. *A Mary Oliver Poetry Book, $17. I think the best bedtime read is an introspective poetry book. I love starting and ending my days with Mary Oliver poems. Her collection of poems, “Dream Work” couldn’t be a more perfect addition to anyone’s nightstand.

11. *Kin Dream Light Mocktail Mix, $77.99. A bedtime bev is a must for any romanticized sleep routine. I savor this mocktail mix by Kin like nothing else. It has the right amount of melatonin and mixes perfectly with cranberry juice, apple cider, some blood orange syrup and your favorite sparkling water.

12. Handmade Stone Gua Sha, $28. I’ve never tried a stone gua sha — but this handmade one by ceramicist Earthen Goose intrigues me. Doubles as a piece of decor on someone’s vanity or bathroom counter, too.

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04 | For the proverbial bag lady

Otherwise known as the “Mary Poppins” of the friend group. Need a chapstick? A toothpick? A glasses wipe? They’ve got it. They may also double as the mom friend, the person that’s always prepared for unforseen circumstances and the one with the killer purse collection.

And if you know your bag lady friend well, you know they have a great appreciation for anything that embelishes the act of taking something out of their bag.

1. *Smith’s Rosebud Lip Balm, $18.75. One of my favorite lip balms period. Highly reccomend getting a three packs so the person can have one outside of their bag.

2. Harkin Leather Pouch, $198. One of my favorite leather designers, Courtney Harkin recently created the most beautiful and practical pouch that can organize the chaos of anyone’s bag.

3. *Aesop Aromatique Hand Balm, $35. I have this lotion in the scent tangerine rind and it never leaves my bag. Its subtle, yet refreshing scent also doubles as a on-the-go fragrance.

4. Flip Phone Mini Hair Brush, $22. Chances are, your bag lady friend already has a travel hairbrush and compact. But do they have something that is two-in-one and is shaped like a flip phone?

5. *Puffy Glasses Case, $17. Nothing makes my sunglasses or extra pair of specs feel more secure or cute than this puffy case from Baggu.

6. Ceramic Bead Bag Charm, $48. Ditch the cheap bag charms! The best ones are made with love and can hold onto a person’s bag forever. I’m absolutely in love with these smiley face ones made by artist Edith Beursekns.

7. Decorative Pill Box, $34. If you can’t find one at a thrift store or vintage shop, these pill boxes from Etsy are pretty darn cute.

8. *Hibiscus Flower Glasses Wipe, $10. I have three of these and they alway come in handy at the most dire moments.

9. Magnetic Power Bank Portable Charger, $74.95. It’s hard to find a charging bank that is both sleek, powerful and stylish.This one that magnetically sticks to your phone can live in someone’s bag at all times, without having to switch it out to save on weight.

10. *Time Change Generator Zipper Pouch, $36. I own this pouch and it holds all my tech accessories I need: charger, portable mic, earbuds, etc. Plus, it features an original screen print design made by a Cleveland-based creative studio.

11. *Megababe Thigh Rescue (Mini), $10. Another ride or die item. A must for the summer or whenever you have a long walk ahead of you.

12. *Brighton Card Wallet, $35. I love using vintage metal card wallets to carry loose gift cards in my bag (try searching old decorative cigarette holders for the same effect). Nothing looks more chic than pulling out a business card from one of these.

13. *Ilia Balmy Tint Hydrating Lip Balm, $28. This is my secret weapon for keeping color on my lips and cheeks throughout the day.

04 | For the future bestseller

This one is for the writers, the lit fic girls, the ones crafting the next big story. Whether they’re aiming for their first novel, an essay collection or growing their writing online, this is the person that has a way of words and needs to be reminded of that.

There’s something extra special about giving something to someone that helps with their craft. Everytime they use it, they’ll be reminded that you’re rooting for them to keep going.

1. Literary Clock, $120. Keeping time is important for any writer or creative, but I love that this nifty invention doubles as a daily quote calendar to help feed inspiration when needed.

2. Imaginary Authors Perfume, $7-$115. One of the coolest perfume brands out there. Each scent pairs with a specific story, ranging from romance to magical realism.

3. *Stabillo Boss Highlighter Set, $14.99. These feel amazing in your hand and have the best color palettes. I have two (lavender and pink) so far and they’re my favorite for highlighting book passages or my own journal entries.

4. *Cozy Sherpa Throw, $74.95. Wearing this as I write this! Perfect for those long hours of writing when your entire outfit just needs to be a blanket.

5. *Midori MD Notebook Journal, $13.99. My favorite notebook brand because it opens up easily and makes it easy to start writing.

6. Flower Pen Clip, $7. So they never have an excuse to not jot something down because they don’t have a pen.

7. *Author-Inspired Cap, $34. One of the best items on this whole list, if I do say so myself. Eve Babitz, Elena Ferrante, Jane Austen — choose the one that your friend would wear with the same energy as a devoted sports fan.

8. Paddywax Orange Candle, $31. Lighting a candles is an improtant part of my writing routine. Orange candles specifically are supposed to symbolize creativity and inspiration.

9. *The Writing Life by Annie Dillard, $5.49. A great companion for writer’s block or when you need to remember why you startd writing in the first place. Plus, it’s short and sweet.

10. *Schneider Slider Ballpoint Pens, $12.30. When in doubt, go with a pen set that writes as smoothy as butter.

11. Stainless Steel Espresso Cup With Tray and Spoon, $54.66. I love having a designated mug and tray just for my desk. This has all three-in-one and it’ll make them feel like the chic writer they are.

12. A Game of Storytelling Writing Prompts, $17.99. For when they (inevitably) need a bit of free writing inspiration to get the juices flowing.

13. *Quilted Pencil Case, $21. Just a simple, personal fave. I have this exact one and it fits so much while still being lightweight.

14. A Subscription to Granta Literary Journal, Prices Vary. We should all be gifting more print magazing subscriptions! It’s truly the gift that keeps on giving. I picked Granta because it’s always the one I’ve found great writing inspiration (in print and online), but there’s so many others out there. Just descretely ask which one your friend loves and reaches for usually at book stores.

15. An Online Writing Workshop, Prices Vary. So many to choose from! I’m partial to Literary Cleveland because I’ve been to a couple of their virtual sessions and they’ve alway enlightened me and help move my creative writing forward. Others to check out: The Center For Fiction and Gotham Writers.

As always, thank you for reading! Let me know if any of the above categories spoke to you :)

I’d also be remiss not to mention how a gift subscription to The Changing Room can work for any of the categories above. I write monthly posts about all things personal style, tastemaking and creative wisdom.

Regardless, thank you, thank you, thank you for reading and being here. Your readership is the greatest gift to me.

With love,

Arbela 🌹

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As an ex-Bride, let me prepare you for some inevitable heartbreak. There will be things that you may (slightly) regret not choosing for your wedding. Maybe it’s a flower that you had your heart set on that wasn’t in season. Or a shoe that wasn’t in stock with your size. Or sometimes, the “perfect” items come onto your radar a little too late.

Most of all, you will change, your taste with evolve and all you can do is make the best decision for you, yourself, right now.

The good news? Sometimes these disappointing “no’s” you have to face during the bridal planning process will lead you to the more confident and enriching “yes”.

The other thing I learned was that having a time limit (like all weddings do) for finding what you need and want may seem like a curse at the time but will ultimately be a blessing in disguise. It will help make decisions for you. And trust me, there will be moments of indecesion that feel so overwhleming that all you want to do is have someone choose a color, a location, anything for you.

In honor of my 1-year wedding anniversary, I thought it was only right to share some wishlist items that never made the cut (or some that were strongly inspired by my considerations).

So here are the ones that got away:

1. SOMETHING BLUE SATIN MULES

When I came across these, I fell in love. The perfect shade of blue. The ideal blend of elegant and cool. And a heel low enough and thick enough that even a flats-lover like me can survive.

The only issue? I came across them about 9 months after I got married.

To be honest, I think these shoes were meant for a different type of bridal look than I had. But the silhoutte were still enchanting to me nonetheless.

Side note: It’s funny what a difference a color makes. Because the versions in brown give off a completley different vibe.

2. AN IVORY BEADED BAG

There was a point of the planning process where I simply had to admit to myself that my wedding was not the type that required a bag. And as much as I had so many to choose from, I knew I would end up just giving it to one of my bridesmaids to hold onto during the whole day. I did have one technically for the reception dinner, but it spent most of the night on my chair anyway.

But this handmade beaded ivory bag might be the bridal bag to end all bridal bags. It’s gorgeous and serves as an addition to the outfit in every way. Something about it to me also begs for a little sheer glove moment (I have a recc for that too…).

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And it can be frusterating. So much so, that we opt for the simpler options in the summer — which I’m completely not opposed to! But I’m a firm believer that there are still ways to have fun with your summer style.

Dressing in the summer involves treating your outfits like a chemistry experiment. Will this fabric make me chafe? Will I feel cooler in something tighter or looser? Will this piece absorb the sweat or reveal it?

In other words, figuring out your summer style takes a lot of trial and error. You sometimes won’t know until you go a whole day wearing (and sweating) in something before you know if it can be on rotation for another 85 degree (+) day.

A good example is silk and satin outfits, which are gorgeous, seductive fabrics to wear in the summer. But in certain cases, can’t do well on a day that you know you’ll be sweating a lot.

So it’s all about picking and choosing, finding adjustable formulas and ultimately, taking the pressure off. The heat is doing all that for you anyway.

I think this heat can be a good opportunity to listen to what your body needs: comfort, ease and lots of VENTILATION! In that feeling of restriction, may come a stroke of genius in your wardrobe you didn’t have before.

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5 things to wear when it’s too hot to function

(The following list includes a couple commissionable links)

1. Tube Tops

Sleeves are absolutely out of the question when it hits a certain temperature. And I think the tube top is one of the few pieces in our closets that can only be worn (to its true potential) in the hot, hot summer. Sure, in theory you can play around with layering in other seasons, but let’s be real: tube tops were made for the hot weather.

I have couple I thrifted a while ago and in my opinion, it’s always best when they have some kind of built in bra. The last thing you want to do is be wiggling around uncomfortably. But what I’ve also learned is that the sweat I release during the day, helps keep them stuck to my body anyway (gross, I know, but hey, that’s the chemistry of our bodies!)

Speaking from experience, you may have to go through a few duds before you find the one that molds to your body juuuuust right.

A lot of times, this also depends on what your skin is most comfortable with. I personally do fine with a polyester, nylon or spandex blend. I have a simple black one from H&M (which you can find in many places secondhand) I wear all the time but I also this kelly green one from Free People.

But I also like the idea of a natural fiber, too. Like this 100% linen top from Quince that has more of a summer-in-Italy sort of vibe. I may have to find a secondhand dupe of it…

Speaking of vintage, there’s so many out there that can make you look like you’ve stepped out of a Vogue editorial from the 70s or 2000s. I love this orange printed one from Energie or this paisley green satin number.

And of course, the hottest accessory on my shoulders is plenty of SPF!!!!

🔥 HOT tip: Take a mid-length frilly skirt and wear it as a tube top!

2. A Straight-Up Swimsuit

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As the seasons change, so do the materials we gravitate toward. In October, we start to reach for cashmere cardigans and soft leather jackets. In December, it feels right to wrap yourself in velvet.

Then comes June and silk becomes impossible to resist.

And how can it not? It’s arguablly the most sensual of clothing fabrics. Not only for it’s shimmer but also the way it hugs the body, slips onto it (and off it) and keeps us ventilated.

When the temperature rises, I want to feel the opposite of heaviness on me. The opposite of constrained, hard or angular. Everything must be free-flowing, easy and breathable.

But we sometimes forget the versitility of silk. It’s not just for fancy wine bars or a bedtime robe. It can serve you in a daytime look, a beach day cover-up or a lounge at the park. So, don’t constrain yourself to the opportunities that silk can bring to your summer wardrobe.

I will say, all of this applies to any and all silk-adjacent fabrics. There are plenty of satin or a silk-blend options that to me, do the trick just fine.

And of course, the best place to get the most affordable (and unique) silk pieces is secondhand. All you need is the right keyword search, a bit of patience and you’ve got a ‘90s Prada or Blumarine look on your hands.

I think my favorite part about thrifting silk or silk-y items is that they often overlap with vintage sleepwear. (This is my official reminder to you, dear reader, to never skip the lingerie and pajama section at your local thrift store).

After may hours of browsing I decided to create a little capsule of secondhand silk that can elevate any summer wardrobe.

And this capsule is going to look different for everyone and what their style is. Maybe you just need a cute, shimmery top to pair with your go-to jorts. Or maybe you need a slip skirt to get you through those corporate office days.

Either way, here are some picks…

The Tiny Little Top

For the longest time, I was overthinking what a summer going-out top could (or should) be. At the end of the day, you want it to just be light and bright. In other words, never underestimate the power of a delicate silk camisole or tank.

• This little Ann Klein number in a shimmering creamy peach color.

• For a more formfitting, cropped option, this Ann Taylor top with a peplum silhoutte, high neck and flower embroidery is a great option.

• There’s something about a berry, hot pink when it comes in silk — like this one from Lafayette 148.

• This simple silk-blend knitted top from Euro-X in a creamy green is also a good option for simple outfit formulas

• A little pricier option from Victoria’s Secret, but probably worth it for this incredible color.

• The perfect pinky peach top also from VS…I mean, it’s literally the shade of a summer sunset.

• Finally: a beautiful white/cream v-neck cami by Elie Tahari for living out your Italian summer fantasies.

The Slip-On Dress

You call it a slip dress, I call it a slip-on dress. Because these are the dresses that should make summer dressing incredibly easy. And you don’t need that many — just one that hugs your body like warm embrace and shimmers during golden hour.

• This short purple slip dress from Victoria’s Secret would look amazing dressed down with some sneakers.

• Or even this

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Hello and welcome,

Happy last day of January! We got through this horrid month, somehow.

This will be a monthly series where I do a little round up of my favorite things from the month. I really enjoyed doing a version of this as a gift guide back in December and it seems like a lot of you did too! So why not make this a monthly rendezvous where we meet at the end of the month where I go over all of the things I loved and used? Some of these are newly acquired, others are not. That’s the beauty of discovery — it can come from the old as much as the new!

Let’s get into it…

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Paper & stationary

I am officially a leather journal girlie!!!!! Let me introduce you to my newest child:

• Louise Carmen Roadbook. So…I initially thought I would have to wait to buy this closer to my 30th birthday, but my dear husband got me a gift card for Christmas so now I’m the proud owner of and LC Roadbook. I went with the deep plum color and a playful pink cord, plus one of their charms that reminds me of a Georgia O’Keefe painting. Aside from the heavenly leather smell, I’ve absolutely loved using this portfolio as a haven for all things writing. It currently houses: my commonplace notebook for archiving quotes and media, an everyday-ish diary, my newsletter idea notebook and a free-writing notebook for longer entries and future book ideation. On the front, I added an engraving that reads “still life” because I want to live a still life that is STILL full of LIFE!

• Notebook charms.

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I hope December has greeted you like a soft snowflake. I’ve been in a little funk the last couple of weeks but I think it’s just because one half of my body wants to hibernate and the other half is dying to cross off as much as I can before the new year. Because of this, I have a couple of half-started essays that I’m not ready to share quite yet. So lieu of that, I’ve decided to put together a little gift guide / round-up of things I’ve been enjoying this past year.

I truly think one of the best gifts you can give is a good reccomendation. I think we all have those things that have our certified stamp of approval.

We live in a world where most of what we buy is decided by influencers, hyper-specific algorithms and ads that ambush us wherever we go. This adds to the very present paradox of choice that can feel debilitating. So I’ve been trying to tell myself that sometimes the best gift to give and receive is an honest-to-god, “You’ve got to try this!”

So here are my reccs to you — what I loved and used in 2024!

Life & leisure

• 2024 was the year I tried to do more daily Tarot pulls to help ground and inspire me. Jessica Dore’s “The Change Tarot” tarot deck, which blends tarot readings and insightful psychology, has become a fast favorite.

• These Baggu pouches are my ride or die — ever since I started using them to organize my purse items I feel so much more sane. And as someone who switches between different purses, it’s become so easy to just transfer everyrthing with one swoop.

  

• I discovered one of my favorite ingredients for evening mocktails this year: Kin’s “Dream Light” mocktail mix that has the perfect amount of melatonin and a bit of bitterness that pairs will with the blood orange syrup I use.

• Okay, I’ve technically had this for less than a month, but I’m already obessed with my Paper Republic leather journal. The quality of the leather is soooo good. And the idea of a three-in-one notebook is something I’m very excited to try out in the new year.

• Another stationary-related recc: Midori notebooks. They are just as good as people say; easy to write in, clean and customizable.

• Stabillo Boss has become my go-to highlighter brand — I always pick up a new color when I go to a stationary store.

Thrifts & finds

• I’ll never stop raving about how the majority of the coffee table book collection in our home is secondhand…

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